Accessing Deeper Intimacy and Healing Potential
Your Body’s Wisdom IS the Key.
I am finding that women are seeking ways to feel safe, nourished and satisfied and yet, have forgotten to look at the centers of the heart & womb which seems wild to me.
Let’s use one of my favorite flowers as an example:
The lily. The lily is an absolutely stunning flower that keeps opening herself more and more and more. Just when you think she’s fully bloomed, she reveals a new texture, a new opening, a new glow to her appeal. Think about the magnitude of her size when she is in full bloom – she’s HUGE!!! And on top of all that, what else does she have that fully stands out to us as a perfect reflection of her Feminine nature?
She has her JUICY Tip at the very height of her bloom! It will literally spill over sometimes! She is so FULL on herself (LOL) that she is dripping wet and overflowing. I just love seeing how Nature has so much to teach us.
Ok, so how does this relate to the chambers of the Heart & Yoni?
You see, we are just like the lily. Our potential is that of her full BLOOM: Overflowing. Juicy. Magnificent in nature! But the difference is the following:
The lily naturally gives herself over to the intelligence of Nature. She knows how to surrender to the flow of life. And if there is ever too much of anything, be it sun, water, fertilizer, etc. her bloom will be impacted. She needs the perfect environment to Surrender into so that she may bloom into her magnificent glory.
OK, so let’s bring this over to our bodies:
We as women, require the perfect environment to which we can SURRENDER into, and when we have it, well, we can see what’s possible…
But here’s the thing – when we think of environment, we think of our external surroundings:
The home, the candles, the bed, the smells. That’s all nice and fancy but that’s not the environment I’m referring to. The Lily (alongside all flowers) will bloom in any environment, and so can you.
Your ONE AND ONLY environment that matters is your BODY!
And this is where the different chambers of the Heart & Yoni come into play!
ACCESSING THE DEEPER CHAMBERS OF THE HEART & YONI
The Heart & Yoni are intricately connected and basically dictate how we feel at any given moment. If we are not connecting with them and working on them, I’m not sure any intimacy or deeper healing can occur. These centers are the central portals to a woman’s body and energy field.
Our Heart & Yoni have several chambers that can be accessed under the right circumstances and with the proper self-practice. At this time, there is a lot of questioning around the levels of intimacy one can access and what the role of Sacred Union plays so I’d like to share what I have found in my line of work and experience.
There are two moments where the access of these chambers makes itself be seen and where I learn the most from:
- Quantum healing sessions/womb healing sessions
- Intimacy
Quantum healing sessions/Womb healing sessions
Oftentimes, women come to me with things they want to work on in their hearts & wombs. What I have noticed through the years is that there are many different layers to these energy centers. It is not just one simple energy center like we have been taught. As you work with the quantum field, you will find that you can work on the different layers of these centers and it’s as if you are entering a hallway! One door leads to the next, leads to the next, leads to the next and it’s pretty infinite in there.
It is not uncommon for a woman to come to me intending to work on her womb and the energy does not allow her to go there yet because her heart is not yet calibrated properly. Or perhaps she wants to work on something that’s very deep inside her heart but she must deal with other external factors in her life first before she can go there.
This is why they say ‘There is a time for everything and that time cannot come too early or too late’. The quantum realm works in layers. There is an intelligence there that asks you to work with it very methodically and it knows that if the body or spirit cannot support the healing that the mind is wanting, it will not allow for it. I literally have to ask for permission to access certain chambers within the yoni and heart and if it is not given we must simply work on other parts of the body and life first.
I think this is important to know on the healing path or spiritual journey. We want all the healing and all the things to be done today, right now, with one session, and it turns out, energy, although quantum, can only be taken in small bite-size pieces because of the time-lapse and need for embodied change. Just as we wouldn’t eat a whole pie in one sitting, we wouldn’t expect to completely recalibrate these very complicated and quantum centers in one session or one download.
The Heart and the Yoni are so complex. They carry so much information about our current life, our past generations, our Higher Self, our Soul Bluerprint and our Soul Matrix, that it would be ridiculous to think that with just 1 session or 1 moment, all would be taken care of.
INTIMACY
The following will be shared from my line of work which entails being in a committed relationship as this is where I have seen the inner chambers be accessed.
Intimacy in this sense is explained as the ability to connect deeper with yourself and your committed lover leading to deeper states of bliss and orgasm, which then ripple out into the whole of your relationship and your life.
Many women feel stunted or held back by their ability to connect with their partner. When I tune into their field or the field of the relationship, it is because these centers (the heart and yoni) or the chambers have not been accessed.
You can be physically intimate your entire life with someone, but if your centers are not open and the container is not set for each of you to explore them, then there is no trick, affirmation or toy that will give you access.
I find it silly when sex coaches teach people how to level up their bed in game or do things to keep the other interested and turned on when in reality, we are all just THIRSTY for the Full BLOOM of our natural expression. And when you look into it further, we find that many of these coaches sharing intimacy ‘hacks’ are not in committed relationships, sacred union or any real container that can hold the exploration of a deeper level of alchemical work that many women are craving. They are taking a fully physical approach to intimacy which, to my understanding and experience, is barely the tip of the iceberg.
Our bodies work in LAYERS and it’s not just PHYSICAL. I’d argue it’s way more energetic and the physical body follows. So you can have all the tricks and tips, but if you lack intimacy and awareness of Self, you will endlessly seek band-aid solutions. We must work with these internal chambers consciously if we want to experience deeper intimacy and healing in our lives. When you are able to to FULLY BLOOM, you don’t need bells and whistles, techniques and tricks. The glow and the juices and your natural desire for intimacy and exploration of these inner chambers will do the work for you.
This is very important for women to understand because it seems there is a constant search for therapists, coaches, shamans or whatever the case to help them become more embodied or sensual when in fact, there has been no ‘arriving’ to their Self. The body, the spirit, the human that lives within them.
These inner chambers of the heart & yoni remain locked until we have proper access to them via the right relationship. This is why you may feel like you want to go deeper with someone but you can’t. Or you’re ‘doing all the right things’ but don’t feel grounded, seen or secure in your body. Or you’re in a relationship with someone but it doesn’t feel ‘right’ or fully satisfying. This is a deep wisdom in your body that is speaking to you, and if not listened to, will undoubtedly have repercussions (stagnation, energetic blockages, dis-ease, etc.).
If you feel called to further explore this topic, The Seductress Path within the S.O.F.I.A. School of Feminine Initiatory Arts explores Sacred Sexuality and walks us through accessing these chambers. I believe as more women access these chambers, their relationships with Self and Partnership will flourish and their lives will be rebirthed. There is a true Magic that is accessed when these chambers come alive and are touched.
I’ve also created a FREE Feminine Foundations Course for Feminine Wisdom to move through you so that you may begin opening the door to what it means to create a simple, practical and daily approach to exploring these centers. It won’t happen in a day or a session but it will open the door to perhaps the simplicity (and devotion) required to begin accessing new levels of intimacy and healing.
